Imagine for a second that you were thrust out of your house and from the inheritance of your father by your cousin brothers because a harlot (prostitute) gave birth to you? You began to ask yourself if it was your fault for your father to have gone into a harlot to conceive an idea called “you?” Two persons didn’t have self-control over their feelings and the result was you but as if that was not enough, when your father died, your stepbrothers threw you out of your father’s house to go and wander into oblivion. Now, if I may ask; if you were the one that was sent out of your father’s house, what will you do? Will you go and make yourself useful or allow self-pity, regret, and retrogression to become the order of your life? I guess not.
It
is expedient for you to realize that it is not your fault that you were born by
a harlot. It is still not your fault that you were born by poor parents or even
thrown away at birth only to be picked by a Good Samaritan who took you to an
orphanage home where you grew up as an orphan not knowing your biological
parents. But your fault would be if you refuse to get past that ugly incidence
in your life and decide to live in resentment, bitterness and discouragement.
The reason is that many found themselves in similar situations like you but
made it triumphantly through life’s struggles and became victors and successful
in life. Thus, if they could make it then, you can make it in life as well.
Seriously
speaking, I want to advise everyone that is involved in all these careless acts
of throwing children away at birth to desist from such acts. Yes, you didn’t
abort him or her (which is good) but he or she still deserves to get a better
life. You threw him or her out there and went your own way but God saw you. You
have never sat down to think for a second that if your parents had done that to
you, you would not be alive today. How people do things without knowing the
repercussion for committing such acts, and you think in the end that you will
go unpunished. How you lie! And except you change from such acts and practices,
you will receive a greater punishment than you can possibly imagine: for that
is great wickedness. That child is innocent of whatever transpired to bring
them forth into the world and deserves to live.
God
created every child special and He is hoping that that child would contribute
his or her quota to the improvement of humanity at large but when asked why the
world didn’t see him or her on the scene, it would be said of such that her
mother threw him or her away on a garbage dump and a man carelessly threw some
refuse unto such a child and the child died instantly. Of course, you may think
that you didn’t kill the child because you are not the one that threw the
refuse on the child but on the contrary, you are the one that killed the child
because you threw them away in the first place. How a countless number of people
suffer unduly as a direct result of the wrong choices their parents made in life,
it doesn’t have to be this way my brother, my sister. What will you tell your
maker (God) in the future when you finally go back to him? Would you say that
you were fooled into having unprotected sex with a guy? Or that you were raped
and molested into having the unwanted pregnancy? Yes, as valid as these points
are, it is not enough reason for you to throw such a child away.
Maybe, you have probably suffered from the
ills of such acts as one of the children who were thrown away by their parents
and have grown up filling bitter and angry towards life and as a result, you don’t
see any hope for living. You have resulted into illicit acts because, nobody
cared enough to be of help to you at your times of need; you begged and begged
and when it yielded no result, you joined bad giants who introduced you to this
unlawful acts (including raping girls or women) but life can be different for
you my brother. My sister, no matter what transpired between you and that man
that resulted in the unwanted pregnancy, let it go: you would be proud that you
spared that child’s life that may become very great tomorrow (the future
leader) and put smiles on your face. Let us think of the possibility of a better
future instead of dwelling in the mishap of the moment. There is a better life
ahead of you if you believe.
For
you who think, you were dumped at birth or allowed to suffer by a careless
parent somewhere and you have allowed that incidence to give you the leverage
to go about causing wickedness all over your neighborhood; I say unto you that
you need to let it go. Yes, it was a very bad thing that was done to you but
two wrongs can never make it right. You were offended by careless parents and
therefore, you go ahead to rape and cause trouble in the lives of innocent
girls who are loved by their parents. This is not right my friend, you must
learn to forgive people for the wrong done to you because, if you don’t, you
will discover that life will not treat you well at all; lack of forgiveness
does great harm to the person refusing to forgive than the person being held
in the mind. It is only when you forgive that you can see how positive life can
be again. Thus, forgive all wrongs done to you and receive healing from your
wounds my brother.
You
need to realize and understand that many children who were thrown away at such
places where you were thrown died of some mishap but for you to have survived
up to this moment is a thing to celebrate. Don’t you think God has a hand in
your matter and if you can just ask him to forgive you for the wrongs you have
done in the past, He will show you the reason for which you were born? My
brother, don’t allow the bad circumstances of your life to cause you to offend
and thus, refuse to give peace and reconciliation a chance. I just want you to
always ask the question: that if the world was filled with people like you,
would you like that kind of world? Thus, start thinking positively today so as
to change the narrative in your life and environment because you are meant to
be more than you are currently. There is so much possibility in you that is
yet to be harnessed and if you leave it dormant then, the real you can never be
revealed to the world and the world awaits that great one to awaken within you
so as to celebrate him. Don’t allow him to remain in that state of fallowness
but cultivate it today.
I
have never heard of anybody who remained bitter and ended well. I have never
heard of anybody who continued to live in resentment that died in his or her old
age full of years: they are usually short-lived. Things like anger, hatred,
jealousy, bitterness which are the direct products of a life that is resentful
only cause harm rather than good to the humans harboring them. A joyful and happy life make a joyful and happy ending. I hope that you will turn a new
lief today and start seeing life from another eye (the eye of possibilities)
because, if you refuse to change; one day you will be caught in this act of
wickedness and who knows how you will end? You may end in life imprisonment,
sudden death and may even contact a chronic ailment that only God can save you.
Please, reorder the steps of your life in the right direction and remember that
it is the choice you have to make for the betterment of all.
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